your skin is really reacting badly, but not just because you're using it too often. The Ordinary has tons of different retinol concentrations, and if you start with a higher one, it can get brutal. Red and flaky around your eyes is a huge sign that you've overwhelmed your skin barrier. You need to calm that down now - meaning: take a break for a few days and just use a light moisturizer, nothing extra.
once your skin has recovered, start way weaker. not 2-3 times a week, but more like once, and apply it super thin. you should also avoid your eyes generously, because the skin there is way thinner and more sensitive. lots of people underestimate how much retinol attacks your skin barrier - beginners really should ramp up slowly, not the other way around. plus: always follow it with a moisturizer, otherwise you'll dry out completely.
my advice: check what concentration you're using and compare it to beginner levels. if you're really new to this, start with the low doses and increase over weeks, not days. your skin will react better later instead of rebelling already. daily is definitely not right - it takes time.