Getting pre-approval before you even start house hunting is the single move that changes everything for first-timers - it tells you exactly what you can borrow, removes uncertainty from the search, and shows sellers you're serious. Banks aren't being unreasonable about lending right now; they're actually working with borrowers on serviceability calculations. The real bottleneck isn't approval odds; it's the deposit itself.
Where I'd push back slightly on what's already been said: yes, hidden costs matter and yes, people shouldn't wait for perfect conditions. But there's a middle ground between "apply whenever" and "save forever." The deposit is genuinely the hard part for most first-timers, not the lending itself. If you've got 10-15% saved with solid employment history, you're in a reasonable position to talk to a lender. Some will work with smaller deposits if you're willing to pay lenders mortgage insurance. The banks have gotten sharper about assessing whether you can actually handle repayments - they're looking at your current rent payments, other debts, and whether a rate rise would sink you. That scrutiny works in your favour long-term, even though it feels tight in the moment.
The shift you're seeing makes sense too: investors got spooked by the tax and lending landscape changes, but owner-occupiers still need somewhere to live. First-timers often have more stable income situations and aren't leveraged across multiple properties, which is exactly the profile lenders prefer right now. It's not that lending standards have softened; it's that the risk profile has shifted.