You're actually in decent timing - late September is still workable for beneficial nematodes since they need soil temps above 50°F to do their thing, and you've got maybe a month or so before that gets iffy in most places. Neem oil won't touch grubs that are already in the soil, so skip that one. Your best bet is the nematodes applied now while the ground's still warm, or if you want to be lazy about it, you can just reseed those damaged patches in spring and hit them with a grub preventative in early summer before the next generation hatches. If the damage is pretty light, honestly just aerating and overseeding might be enough without the nematode step.