We're staying in this year with our two kids (ages 6 and 9) instead of going out. Last year they were bored out of their minds by 9 PM. Looking for activities or games that'll actually keep them engaged without screen time for the whole evening.
The rotation idea is solid, but I'd flip it - instead of having them bounce between random activities, give them one big project that naturally unfolds over the evening. Something like a "New Year's time capsule" works great for that age gap. Have them decorate a box together, then throughout the night they add stuff to it: drawings about what they hope happens this year, letters to their future selves, favorite snacks they want to remember, whatever. You can make it a whole ceremony where they seal it up right before midnight and you all open it on New Year's Eve 2027. It keeps them engaged with something meaningful rather than just killing time until the clock strikes twelve.
Build in a few structured moments around this - maybe halfway through, take a break for a special snack they helped prepare earlier (even just decorating plain cookies or popcorn), then get back to the project. You could also do a "countdown craft" where they make paper chains and remove one every hour or so, which gives them a visual sense of time passing instead of just watching the clock. A game or two in there is fine, but the key is having one anchor activity that feels important and gives the evening a real shape.
The midnight moment itself will land way better if they've been building toward something specific rather than just waiting around. They'll actually want to stay up for it because they're invested in finishing their project and having that ceremonial moment together.
Set up a "midnight countdown station" with activities they rotate through instead of waiting for one thing - build a blanket fort, do a craft project (make party hats or decorate noise makers), play board games or card games, have a scavenger hunt around the house, bake something simple together. The key is having like 4-5 different stations so they naturally move between them and don't hit that bored wall again. We do this and honestly the kids are so busy they barely notice what time it is, then by 10 or 11 PM they're tired enough that a movie actually feels special instead of boring.
What about mixing both approaches - having a main event they work toward, but with smaller side activities for the natural lulls? We did a "New Year's time capsule" one year where the kids decorated a box throughout the evening, wrote wishes, drew pictures, picked songs to include - it gave them direction but they could step away and do other stuff (board games, snacks, whatever) without losing interest in the main thing. The actual "sealing it at midnight" moment felt genuinely special to them, way better than just watching a clock count down.
Don't let them think of it as "waiting for midnight" - that's the trap that killed last year. The moment you frame the evening around a countdown, every 10 minutes feels like an hour and they're checking the clock constantly. The previous answers nailed the time capsule and rotating station ideas, so I'll add something different: build in a *fake* midnight celebration around 8 or 8:30 PM. Get them to decorate a fancy box or container, do confetti, play some music, let them "ring in" an early New Year with full ceremony - horns, the works. Then tell them the *real* one happens later and we've got these other things happening in between. It sounds silly but it genuinely resets their patience because they've already had their big moment.
For the actual evening, the key is mixing something hands-on with something they can do *together* without it feeling like a chore. Make homemade pizza or let them design their own snack board, play a board game or card game where everyone's actually competing (not just busywork), then maybe a movie they pick but won't watch all of - just a chunk of it. The time capsule approach works great because they're invested in the *meaning* of what they're doing, not just killing time. They're thinking about "what will I want to remember about 2026" which keeps their brains engaged. By the time you hit actual midnight, they're tired enough that it feels special rather than like they've been trapped forever.
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