The real challenge with NC snakes is that you can't reliably ID a venomous one just by looking at patterns or shape from a distance. The hourglass and other markings people talk about definitely exist, but they're way less obvious in person than in photos - lighting changes everything, some individuals are darker or lighter than the guides show, and a stressed or coiled snake looks completely different than a stretched-out one. What people often miss is that non-venomous snakes can actually mimic some of those markings too, which adds another layer of confusion.
Your safest bet is to note the snake's general size, color, and location, then snap a photo if you can do it safely from inside. Upload it to a local NC wildlife group or your county extension office - those folks deal with this constantly and can tell you in seconds what you've got. If you can't get a clear photo and you're genuinely worried, just give your local animal control or wildlife removal service a call. They handle this all the time and won't charge you just to come look, most places.
One thing that actually does help: check if there's a heat-sensing pit along the snake's jaw line (it looks like a small line of dots between the eye and the mouth on venomous pit vipers). But honestly, that's also hard to see without getting uncomfortably close, so don't stress about memorizing it. Your best move is still just to get someone who knows to take a look.