I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, and lately I've been seeing him really active on Instagram and TikTok, liking photos of pretty hot guys and following influencers. He was never like this before. Am I being paranoid or should I be worried? I don't want to be controlling but I also don't want him to take me for a fool.
Has there been any other changes in your relationship lately or is it just this social media thing? What you're describing is pretty normal - people change their social media habits all the time, sometimes just because the algorithm shows you more of a certain type of content and you end up hooked. That said, the sudden change after a year and a half does deserve an honest conversation, but without accusations. Ask him directly what's up with the change, how he's been feeling lately, if there's something wrong between you two. Sometimes these behavior changes have to do with insecurities or boredom, not necessarily wanting to flirt. Listen to what he says without being defensive and from there you can see if it's paranoia or if there's something real going on 🤔
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