I've been working on my novel for almost two years now and keep finding things to tweak. Every time I think it's ready, I spot another awkward sentence or realize a plot point needs clarification. My writing group says it's good enough to query, but I'm terrified of sending something imperfect to agents. At what point do you have to accept that it's as good as it's going to get?
The thing is, there's no magic threshold where a manuscript becomes objectively "ready" - you're actually chasing diminishing returns at this point, where each extra pass catches maybe one typo per chapter instead of genuine improvements. Set a hard deadline (like, pick a date two weeks out), do one final pass focusing only on the big stuff your group flagged, then hit send before your brain convinces you to rewrite chapter three again.
Most agents expect to see polished work, but they also know that manuscripts aren't perfect - and honestly, endless tweaking is just procrastination dressed up as perfectionism. If your writing group, who've actually read it, says it's ready to query, that's your signal; they're giving you permission to stop. The thing is, agents will ask for revisions anyway, so you're not gambling on a "final" version - you're gambling on whether the core story works, and sounds like it does. Two years in, you've got diminishing returns on those edits, so trust the feedback and hit send before you talk yourself into another round of tweaks.
At some point you have to trust the people who've read it fresh - if your writing group says it's ready, they're probably right, and sending it out isn't actually the end of the road (agents will request revisions anyway if they're interested). Two years of tweaking the same manuscript is a sunk cost; the real learning happens when you move on to the next project and come back to this one with actual distance, or when you get real feedback from industry people instead of finding new problems in your own head.
The real problem isn't knowing when to stop - it's that you probably already know and you're just scared. I spent months reworking a recipe I was testing, convinced it needed one more tweak, one more batch to get the ratios perfect, and my partner finally said "you've made this exact thing fifteen times and it tastes great every time." That's when I realized I was just afraid to serve it to people. Your writing group has read it with fresh eyes and said it's ready; agents expect revisions anyway and won't judge you for minor imperfections in the query draft. Set a hard deadline for yourself - maybe two weeks - make one final pass for anything that jumps out, then hit send before you can talk yourself out of it.
I hit this exact wall with a short story a couple years back - rewrote the opening maybe fifteen times, each pass feeling necessary until my partner finally read it cold and said the version from draft eight was already solid. That's when I realized I'd stopped editing and started executing anxiety. Two years in, you've got distance problems, not manuscript problems; send it out to agents and let their feedback do the heavy lifting. If they reject it, you'll get actual notes on what matters instead of chasing ghosts in sentences that probably read fine to anyone but you. Your writing group has fresh eyes and zero stake in your self-doubt - listen to them.
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