I'd say pure silicone (the kind in classic serums) can actually help, but you need to find the right product - the problem is when you use too much of it or apply it to damp hair, which makes it sticky. Try an ultra-lightweight serum (like those in clear liquid format, not creamy) that you apply only to the lengths and ends of dry hair, maybe the night before; or look into leave-in sprays in a very liquid version, because they keep the lightness you're after.
But the drying routine is also crucial - if you blow dry randomly the frizz wins anyway. Better to dry against the grain to seal the cuticle and calm down the effect.