Is it rude not to follow someone back on Instagram after exchanging contacts?

SA sanchez1980 ES 🔍 Enthusiast 👁 32 ⚑ Report Etiquette

I met a girl at a party a week ago and we exchanged Instagram handles. She's been following me since day one, but I haven't followed her back because I'm not sure if I want to keep in touch. Should I do it out of politeness or can I wait to see if something more develops?

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There's nothing wrong with not following her right away; Instagram isn't a binding commitment and people exchange contacts all the time without any interaction happening afterward. If you're not sure whether you want to keep in touch, waiting is totally fine - it's not impolite, it's just being honest with yourself instead of doing an automatic follow with no real intention behind it. If something comes up later or you feel like interacting, you can follow her no problem; if not, there's no need to do something that doesn't represent you just to follow a social rule that doesn't actually exist.

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