Phalaenopsis orchids need a temperature shock to bloom, and that's probably what yours is missing. In nature, these orchids flower after a cold period (roughly 10-15 degrees at night for a few weeks), which triggers them to produce flowers. If you keep it in your bedroom at a constant, warm temperature, the signal to bloom never comes. Try placing it somewhere cooler during autumn and winter, maybe near a window where it feels the temperature change between day and night. Even just a few degrees' difference can make all the difference.
The other thing that matters a lot is light. "Near the window" in your bedroom doesn't necessarily cut it - it depends on how much sun actually reaches it. Phalaenopsis orchids love bright, diffuse light, ideally 12 to 16 hours a day. If your window faces north or gets shade most of the time, the orchid doesn't accumulate enough energy for buds. Try moving it somewhere brighter, even if it's not in direct scorching sun (that burns the leaves).
Finally, check whether it's been in the same substrate all this time. If the bark or orchid potting mix breaks down after a year, the roots struggle, and a stressed plant won't bloom. Change the substrate every 1-2 years or so. And also: Phalaenopsis orchids appreciate a bit of fertilizer, especially with a phosphorus-rich formula when the right time for flowering comes around. Demineralized water is fine, but without nutrients the plant doesn't have the resources to produce flowers.