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Spanish, in my opinion, is the most logical choice out of these three. It's easier grammar-wise - there aren't those complicated cases like in German, and the pronunciation is way clearer than in French, where you don't pronounce half the letters. Plus Spanish is much more widely spoken now, they speak it in tons of countries in Latin America and Spain, so it'll be easier to practice. Career-wise it looks pretty good too - demand for Spanish is growing.

German is a classic, of course, especially if your son later wants to go into technical universities or work in engineering fields where this language is still respected. But it's harder to learn, the grammar is serious, lots of exceptions. French I wouldn't even recommend - beautiful language, sure, but the pronunciation is a nightmare, the reading rules contradict each other, and it has less practical use in everyday life compared to Spanish or German.

One more thing - think about whether you have the ability to help your kid with their studies. If you or any of your relatives speak any of these languages even a little bit, that's a huge plus. I think for a fifth grader Spanish is the optimal choice between ease of learning and real usefulness. But if your family has connections to Germany or your child clearly has an interest in technical stuff, German might be more interesting.

Out of these three, Spanish is the easiest to learn right now - the pronunciation is clearer, the grammar is more logical, and more people speak it in the world. But honestly, the choice also depends on your son's personal interests - does he like German films, Latin American music, French culture? What language does he want to watch videos or read in?

VyacheslavKiselev asker Thanks for the advice. My son likes rock and metal, there are a lot of German bands there. Maybe that's a sign?

Does your son have any say in this, or do the parents decide?

Because Spanish really is easier to learn - I agree with the previous answers, the grammar is less convoluted.

But here's the catch: Spanish is taught way less in Russia than German, so if something goes wrong in school, it'll be harder to find a tutor or language courses. German is a guaranteed in-demand choice, there are tons of resources and teachers for it. If your son isn't particularly drawn to the Spanish-speaking world, it might make sense to go with German for the sake of practicality.

My niece was choosing between these three in 5th grade and at first wanted Spanish - it seemed easier. But then it turned out that her school had a German teacher who actually loved his subject and made lessons interesting, while Spanish was just kind of dragging along. In the end she went with German and didn't regret it - the grammar there is really harder, but she literally got into it because the teacher explained everything properly.

My advice: pay attention not just to the language itself, but also to who's going to be teaching it. That's often more important than how difficult the language is.

The quality of the teacher outweighs everything else - your son can end up loving even German with a good teacher or hating Spanish with a bad one. Find out who'll be teaching each language at your school, that's what really matters.

The main mistake is choosing a language based solely on grammar complexity. Spanish really is simpler on paper, but if your son doesn't watch Spanish-language series, isn't interested in the culture of those countries, and doesn't see any practical use for it - he'll just forget the language within a year. But if something hooks him - some topic, a film, or music - he'll be much more willing to learn.

I know a family where the daughter chose French because she was into fashion and fashion bloggers from Paris. She studies with pleasure, despite all those French nasal sounds and difficult pronunciation. Meanwhile, her classmate picked Spanish "because it's easier," but quickly realized it didn't grip him at all, and his learning effectiveness dropped to zero.

Real advice: first have a conversation with your son about whether he likes any countries, music, or films? German is useful for science and tech, Spanish is genuinely a more vibrant language in terms of the total number of speakers, and French opens the door to European culture. But the main thing is for him to find it interesting himself. Work it out with the school so that the child makes the choice, not the parents. Motivation is 80% of language success, not vowels and consonants.

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