Since like 2015-2016, I keep having the same dream over and over where I'm being chased in my childhood home. It's become like a total obsession, I talk about it to everyone. Does that mean something specific or is it just my brain glitching?
I'm a bookseller and manager, not a psychologist, but I can tell you that recurring nightmares are super common and rarely anything serious. What usually happens is your brain picked up on some anxiety-inducing scenario somewhere and it keeps replaying it because it's turned into some kind of automatic pattern. The fact that you've been having it since 2015-2016, that's a long time, but it doesn't necessarily mean it's rooted in something really deep. Sometimes it's just a loop that's set in and keeps going round and round.
What bugs me a bit is when you say it's become a "real obsession" and you talk about it with everyone. So maybe the question isn't so much "why am I having this nightmare?" but rather "why am I obsessed with this nightmare?" Because once you start talking about it a lot, thinking about it before bed, waiting for it to happen, it reinforces the whole thing. It's like a self-fulfilling prophecy. And honestly, if it's been eating at you this much for a decade, it might be worth seeing a therapist or psychologist, not because something's wrong with you, but just to get you out of this loop that seems to be weighing on you pretty hard.
It's not necessarily just your brain glitching, but yeah it's true that it can be linked to tons of different things and not necessarily something dramatic! What interests me about your story is that you say you talk about it to everyone and it's become an obsession - sometimes the more you think about it and the more you talk about it, the more your brain will keep replaying the same scenario because it gets stuck on it. Like, I noticed with stressful stuff (accounting, annoying new clients...) that if I keep going over it in my head on repeat, it comes back as a nightmare! Maybe try to actually let go of this dream - like stop making it your main conversation topic - and see if it changes over a few weeks? Not a miracle cure but often just changing your approach really helps.
The thing with nightmares that keep coming back for years is that it's rarely just a case of "your brain glitching out" - there's usually something stuck, some worry or tension you're dragging around without really dealing with it. After 10 years you've clearly not let it go since you're still talking about it everywhere, so honestly it'd be worth digging into with a therapist to see what that childhood house actually means to you, because recurring nightmares are often your brain's way of telling you "hey wait, there's something here". The fact that it's crystallized around the same dream rather than varying suggests it's not just random stress - it's something specific that needs attention.
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