your brain during REM sleep is basically firing on all cylinders with neurochemicals that make everything feel hyper-real, plus your prefrontal cortex (the part that does reality checks) is way less active so you dont question whats happening. the sensory details feel vivid because your visual cortex and other sensory areas are just as stimulated as when youre awake, but theres nothing grounding you to compare it against. most people experience this to some degree - thats why lucid dreaming is possible once you train yourself to notice the inconsistencies. the emotional intensity sticks with you too because theres actual neurological activity happening, its not like your brain is half-asleep making a weak simulation.