did the car have any lights or sounds running while it sat for those three days, or was it completely quiet the whole time?
the previous answer nailed the sitting period being the real culprit here, but i'd push back a bit on that voltage reading. 12.2V isn't just "low" - that's genuinely dead territory for a car battery. once you drop below 12.4V or so, you've lost most of your usable charge, and the starter clicking instead of cranking confirms it. so yeah, jump it or get a trickle charger on there, but the real question after you get it running is whether the battery stays charged or if it keeps dying.
here's the thing though: modern cars do have phantom drain from all the computers and modules sitting in standby mode. if you left it parked with the battery at, say, 75% and systems drawing power for three days straight, that's absolutely enough to kill it completely. the software update itself didn't cause this - but if your charging system was already struggling before the update, those three days would have exposed the problem. after you jump it, let it run for a good 20-30 minutes to see if the alternator is putting juice back in. if the battery drops again after a day or two of normal driving, then you've got a charging issue that needs dealer attention, not a software glitch.