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Cards help you figure yourself out better than they'll tell you the truth about some specific guy. I once did a card reading before meeting someone I didn't know in person, and the cards showed me... that I myself was hesitant and afraid of making a mistake, not something about him.

We met - turned out he was a normal guy, I just made up a bunch of problems in my head. Better to just meet up, see how you two get along in real life, and trust your own impression instead of the cards.

Not a tool for making serious decisions. Honestly, it's better to trust your gut and logic: meet the guy in real life, see how you two click in person, whether your interests and energy match up. Oracle cards can only give you what you already think deep down, but the real answer will only come from actually meeting face to face.

You can definitely read Oracle cards for anything, including dating, but it's really more of a question of how much it'll actually help you. The comment above was right - it's basically entertainment first and foremost. I personally love all kinds of esoteric stuff, but when it comes to actual decisions, like meeting someone in person, cards mostly help you figure out your own feelings rather than show you your destiny. A reading can confirm what you already intuitively understand, but that's about it.

Honestly? A month of texting is still not much information about a person. It'd be way more useful to just meet the guy in real life and see how you two actually communicate face to face. Sometimes people are totally different online. If you want to get an answer from the cards - go for it, it won't hurt, but at the same time trust your gut: how comfortable is it to text with him, are there any weird moments, is his life interesting to you?

I think about stuff like this a lot after my morning runs - and usually the answer's already there inside, you just need to pay attention to it. Before you meet, it's better to piece together a picture based on actual facts than to read cards. Have any red flags already shown up in your conversations, or is everything looking okay?

Максим asker No red flags, we communicate normally. Just not sure if it's worth spending time on meeting up.

Do you already have a rough idea of whether you want to date him, or are you genuinely completely confused?

Oracle cards can of course be used for any question, including relationships, but there's one catch - you'll interpret the result depending on what you actually want. If the cards "say" go out with him, you'll be happy, if not - you'll say you did the reading wrong.

It's better to just meet up with the guy in real life and figure out if there's something between you - that'll give you way more information than any divination.

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