The trick is reading the first 20-30 pages before committing to it, maybe in a bookstore or with the preview on Amazon, so you can tell right away if the style grabs you. Then check the reviews but not the top ones (they're often extreme), instead look for the 3-4 star ones where people explain what didn't work for them - if their reasons are the opposite of what you're looking for, the book is for you. Another thing that really helped me is looking for books similar to ones I've truly loved, like by checking Goodreads or asking in reader communities, because often the genre alone isn't enough - it all depends on the pace of the story, the tone, the type of characters.