We've been messaging each other in the app for a week, and I really like her. Now I'm afraid to suggest moving to Telegram - like, what if she thinks I'm trying to find her on the internet or something weird like that?
I don't see the problem, that's exactly what people do - they move from Tinder to Telegram or WhatsApp. Just suggest it naturally, like "let's continue in Telegram, it's more convenient there". If she's interested, she'll agree without any questions. There's nothing weird about it, actually it's the standard move.
That's totally normal and natural 😊 Moving to Telegram after a week of chatting on Tinder is standard practice. Girls get this perfectly, cause they often suggest it themselves. Telegram's more convenient - photos and videos load faster, you don't need to pay for premium to see messages. So there's nothing weird about it at all, if anything it looks like a natural progression of the conversation.
Just write her something like "by the way, wanna move to telegram? it's more convenient for messaging" or "want me to send you my telegram link?" - and that's it 👍 She'll either happily agree or suggest another way to stay in touch. The key thing is not to drag out the conversation in Tinder itself. If there's mutual interest, it's better to move to social media or messengers and work toward actually meeting up rather than chatting for months in a dating app.
Honestly, I've been into gardening rather than dating for a long time now 😄 but the logic's the same - better to make a move forward than sit around waiting. Like they say, after a week of chatting it's time to either meet up or level up the communication. Good luck to you!
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