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Liking posts is a normal way to start if it looks genuine. don't just spam like on everything in 5 minutes, that definitely looks weird. if you're actually interested in her content, you can like a couple posts over a few days - the ones you really liked. it's not harassment, it's just normal social media interaction like everyone does.

then you can send her a message, but it shouldn't be just "hey" or "you're so beautiful". it's way better to comment on something specific from her posts - ask about a location in a photo, talk about her hobbies if you can see them, or if she posts some kind of content, write something thoughtful about it. i used to spend a lot of time on insta and i noticed when guys would write something actually smart and on point - that felt way nicer than generic lines.

the main thing is - feel the line between genuine interest and being pushy. if she doesn't respond, don't send 10 messages in a row. and yeah, don't comment under every single post from day one. just be respectful and natural, like if you met someone irl. if there's no spark, that's fine, it happens.

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