How do I choose between an in-person university and an online program?

Got accepted to two places at the same time - one is full-time with a dorm in a neighboring city, the other is an online bachelor's program at a well-known university. Financially the online option is better, but I'm worried there won't be any real student life. Anyone who studied online, are you happy with the result and the communication with classmates?

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I didn't go to university myself - I got into the field through courses and salon internships - so I don't have direct experience with in-person or online learning. But from what I see with people I know: those who chose online are usually happy with the knowledge they gain and the savings, but they really do miss out on the spontaneous socializing that happens in dorms. That said, a lot of online programs these days organize meetups, project groups, and even in-person sessions, so you don't end up completely isolated. In your case it's more about whether you personally need that student atmosphere - if you're motivated to learn and independent, online will work just fine, and you can use the money you save on internships or hobbies.

The main thing is to figure out what matters more to you at this stage of your life: a diploma from a good university or the student experience itself. These aren't the same thing :) If you're the self-motivated type and can push yourself to study, then online actually gives you real knowledge and a diploma that's worth something. As for "student life" in the fun party sense - yeah, you won't get that in the same way as living in a dorm. But online programs often have in-person meetups, especially in upper years, social media groups where everyone chats, sometimes group projects in small teams. It's not like none of that exists.

On the flip side, dorm life and in-person classes are genuinely a different experience. You run into people in hallways, learn to live independently, friendships just happen naturally. But honestly, not everyone values that, and plenty of people who did in-person study later regretted spending more money :)

Maybe there's a middle ground? For example, enroll in in-person classes but look for a part-time or hybrid program in the same city - study and live independently, but still have direct contact with the university. Or go the other way: choose online but specifically make trips for in-person sessions and organize socializing with classmates yourself. Whether you become part of the student community depends on you, not on the format of instruction.

Choose based on what you'll need in five years, not on the romance of student life. A degree from a well-known university will open doors that are closed to online bachelor's graduates, even if the education there is actually better. Employers look at the name - that's just a fact, as sad as it sounds. But if you've already figured out your career path and you know that in your field an online degree isn't a barrier, then the financial savings could be the deciding factor.

I often see young guys studying remotely out at my dacha - my neighbor's son is in an online program, then his friend's son enrolled in the same thing. The first one is happy, studies fine, doesn't struggle at all. But I also know a guy who chose online "to save money," and then regretted it - in his field employers specifically want an in-person degree from a recognized institution, and he ended up having to retrain. Student life, dorm, hanging out between classes - that actually builds your network, gives you friends, sometimes even your first clients or business partners. Online won't give you that, unless you're a really social person and you find a community on your own.

Before you decide, look at the specifics: who are they hiring in the industry where you see yourself? Talk to people who already work in your potential field. And honest advice - if the in-person university is in a neighboring city, that's not the end of the world. You can go home on weekends, you don't have to live in a dorm.

stepan.romanov asker Thanks, got it 👍 I'll talk to people in my field, that makes sense.

So what are you planning to do after graduation - work in your field or do you just need the diploma?

I was in a similar situation, though in a different context. When I was deciding how to learn new technologies for work, I had to choose between an intensive in-person course and an online program. I went with online because I could learn at my own pace, and it worked out. But the most important thing is I knew exactly why I needed that knowledge and kept myself accountable. If you just want to "get a diploma" - online will do the job fine and save you money. But if you're after connections, the atmosphere, a chance to find a mentor - in-person is still better, even if those late-night talks in the dorms eventually fade away. Graduates remember not so much the lectures, but the people and the projects they worked on together.

stepan.romanov asker I want to work in my field, that's important to me 😊 But networking matters too, I get your point.

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