Is a long-distance relationship worth it if he doesn't want to come visit me?

LA larissa.costa PT 🔍 Enthusiast 👁 23 ⚑ Report Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, he lives in São Paulo and I live in Lisbon. At first he'd come here every two months, but since last year he basically doesn't come anymore. When I bring it up, he says flights are too expensive and tiring, but when I see on his stories that he's always going out with his friends. I'm starting to feel like maybe it's really not worth continuing this, because I feel alone.

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leticia72 BR 🔍 Enthusiast 💬 27 answers ⚑

You can't ignore the fact that he's choosing to hang out with his friends instead of making an effort to be with you, and that's really different from him genuinely not being able to travel because of money or health stuff. If he wanted to, he'd find a way, you know? Long-distance is already hard on its own, imagine when one person doesn't really care about keeping it going. You deserve to feel valued and not like some backup option sitting in the background while he just lives his life normally.

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