About 4 months ago my best friend stopped responding to my WhatsApp messages. We used to talk every day before that, shared everything. One day she just stopped answering and I have no idea what happened. Should I try to contact her some other way or just leave her alone?
Try reaching out to her through another way (Instagram, Facebook, a direct call) but only once and without pushing; if she doesn't respond, respect that silence because sometimes people need to disappear without explanations and forcing the situation only makes things worse. After 4 months it's hard to know what happened (personal problems, a toxic relationship that she perceived differently, depression, a life change), but the thing is that insisting more isn't going to change anything. It hurts a lot, I know, but sometimes friendships just end like that in a weird way 💔
Do you know any mutual friends who are still in contact with her? Those kinds of disappearances aren't always about you - sometimes something's going on in her life, and a mutual friend could give you clues without you having to make more attempts that might end up being awkward. If there's no one in common, one last thing: check if she's still active on social media (Stories, profile picture changes, that kind of stuff) - if she's posting but just not responding to you specifically, well, then you have to accept that something happened between you two, even if you don't know what it is.
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